Hi Folks!
So sorry I've been gone for so long. I've been home one week now. I just haven't had much time to write, until now.
We went to visit our folks up in Austin after our BIG New Years Night! I KNOW!!! Just whose Crazy Idea was that??!! Of course, my Dear Hubby (DH)! Although, I have to admit that I was caught at a "
weird moment" when I agreed to
travel on January 1st! - New Years Day! - You know, day after New Years Eve??!! That was a FIRST! Thankfully, my DH let me sleep late! Anyway, we arrived there in the late afternoon and traffic was amazingly pretty good! Well, what do you know? Think most peeps were sleeping in? - Uh, I mean Sleeping it off??
LOL I thought I would sleep, but ended up finishing up the first book in a new series of books I'm reading. The "Twilight" series! Heard of that? (more on that later.)
~~~So, when we arrived at my
SIL &
BIL's home (cool peeps), we walked in with all of our luggage (Piper included - taking several trips) - right into a house FULL OF IN-LAWS!!
Well, what do you know? They were all there waiting for us to eat a New Years dinner!! What a HUGE Surprise!!!!! I wondered --
no, expected - that DH knew all about this and decided it best not to tell me.
Hmmmm...... grumble... grumble..... - No Wonder he pushed for me to agree to go on New Years Day! -- All I wanted to do was settle in and relax.
NO SUCH DUMB
FREKEN LUCK!
EVERYONE was dressed up, dinner was ready to sit on the table... and we had to run in and clean up our travel dust/dog poo(uh I mean smell) - and whatever travel smells have... And,
I had to quickly freshen up, greet every single person there, and then have a lovely meal. Oh Yeah! Also, since
xmas presents were being given out, we had to hand out the
xmas presents we had brought with us, but NOT to the peeps we didn't know would be there! (Thanks for the notice all!)
~~~ OH I always thought I liked surprises.... I suppose it depends on what the surprise is. So, the evening was long. After everyone had gone home, the 4 of us settled in to watch a movie (or is that the 7 of us? - 3 dogs). My brother #2 calls me at 10p.m. to tell me that our mom fell down the stairs in her home at 6
ish (that's when we arrived!). She is married to her 2
nd husband - none of whom we are thrilled with. It turns out that (
Let's call him the JERK) the Jerk, decided to call only ONE of our brothers, Bro#1 (the one who is doesn't have a clue about him) & the Jerk decided that Mom did NOT need to go to the ER!! Mom turns 80 in April. And, Bro#1 didn't even argue with him, OR go over to see mom!
Bro#2 and I were FREAKED! At this point, mom was already in bed, so we decided to run over there First thing in the morning and take mom to the ER. Bro#2 & I wanted to arrive first and told Bro#1 & wife to WAIT for us to get there, since we had keys to the house and didn't want mom having to come down the stairs (Jerk was already at work - hours are 4a.m.-12noon), Bro#1 didn't wait, and rang the doorbell and made mom come on down to answer the door. That's just how he is folks. Now you know why he and the Jerk get along. We pulled up 5 min after he did.
Ah, you know family... after we talked to mom, we got into it with Bro#1, as to why he didn't call any of us... THEN, we quickly dropped it - saw it causing mom stress.
AAARRRGGGGHHHH!!!!
~~~~~We all took mom to the ER and I stayed with her in her room. I finally called Jerk, just before he got off work to let him know where mom was. After explaining
exactly which hospital she was at, he said he would just meet us at home since we were all there! Just like him.
Then he called back 10 min later and inquired
again which hospital?
The Dr had ordered a cat scan, and
xrays. When Jerk got there, the
Dr had just reported: no broken bones - possible hairline tailbone fracture, and would be sore for a few months. When the Dr. reported this, then the Jerk said "Yeah, that's just what I told her, she didn't hurt herself...." The Dr interrupted and said "YES" your wife did hurt herself and IS hurting. That's why she is here. (
HOOWA!!) He shut up. But, I don't even think it phased him - no clue. Next was for insurance paperwork and discharge.
Jerk said he would take mom home. I told him that he would not take mom home; that mom could NOT climb up into a truck; and that we would be taking her home. So, he said he would see her at home; and he left. No questions about payment - discharge papers -
Dr's orders - prescriptions,
nada...... Again, just like him.
I decided to stay and take care of mom for the week, then ended up staying 2
wks, since she was still not doing that great. Bro#2 and his wife were going out of town, so at least I could be there for her. I stayed at their place while I was there. They have stairs too, so at least I got some exercise!
lolMom is doing much better. She saw her Dr on Friday - 15
th, and he told her that it would take about 4 months for her to begin to feel normal again. He gave her a Handicap sticker for her car, as she is walking pretty slow, and still gets dizzy (but has
meds for that). I know she wants to drive herself to church on Sunday, but we'll see.
I hope everyone had a great New Years Eve/Day!