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Monday, March 9, 2009


Hello out there. February was a long month, for me anyway. In between getting the house cleaned up & ready for visitors we (FW & I) had lots to do. FW suggested we make the invitations, and I loved that idea! We put our heads together and made many trips to Hobby Lobby, and came up with a super looking invitation! One that would make Jeffrey proud. Everyone loved the invitations and were impressed!




Well, all of the women/girls! All that the boys read on the invitation, was B&J's Pizza and 7:00 p.m, Most of the boys went to the wrong pizza place, until one of the mothers spoke to a couple of the boys and told them to spread the word, that the party was at the newer loaction!





LOL Only 4 of the boys ended up at the other B&J's, then eventually came to the party.
I bought Transformer plates for the cake. Jeffrey collected most of the superhero figures, the ones to put in a case for show. He also has a large collection of comic books, as most of his friends do. So, I thought they would love them! Well, the plates made them laugh. LOL I also made copies of a picture to pass out to his friends ( It's the one I have on here with Jeffrey sitting with his friends holding their skateboards.) We had a super turnout! There were about 25 people there.
Speaking of cakes! FW made two cakes for us! One for my DH's birthday on the 27th, and one for the party! They were pinapple upside down cakes. My DH and Jeffrey's favorite cake! All I can say is YUM-YUM!! And, she made them from scratch!!! Much thanks to my BFF. :)
One of the boy's Mr. T insisted that he bring something to the party. So, since I had told him that I was going to order another flavored cake, he said that he would have his sister make a cake. So, he had her make my favorite cake: Chocolate Fudge! It was very yummy too! Both of the cakes were finished quickly! Luckily, we still had some of DH's cake at home!
All of us were able to talk to everyone there and reminisce about Jeffrey. It was a sad, but joyous occasion to remember Jeffrey and the wonderful person he was; we even swapped funny stories about situations Jeffrey and some of his friends had gotten into. Most of the girls cried while talking about Jeffrey to me, my DH and my daughter. There were lots of hugs and tears.

One of Jeffrey's dear girlfriends is getting married in June. She was so upset that Jeffrey would not be here to be her best man. Yes, her fiance would allow that. He's a great guy.
I blew up a picture of Jeffrey and had it on one of the tables, everyone loved the picture. Luckily, there are so many pictures, not all of his friends have seen them all, or us, for that matter.

One of Jeffrey's long time high school sweethearts remembered some pictures she had, so she shared them with us on MySpace. There were 18 pictures!!! YEA!!!!!!!!!
Since the pictures were new to us, he seemed so real, so alive, and ready to pop out of that picture so we could hear his voice and feel his big hugs. He looked so happy in all of them. He looked great!
The party lasted longer than I thought it might, which I thought was wonderful! We were there for 4 hours! We left just as the place was closing up! We had a great time, everyone did. I will try to get a picture of the invitation in here. And, now I can finally read all of the blogs that I missed. I hope y'all are doing great.

6 comments:

Farmer*swife a/k/a Glass_Half_Full said...

YAY! Great to have ya' back and blogging! Great recap of the party!

And, the picture doesn't do the invitation justice! ;-)

So glad you were able to get it up!

Smooches!

Prohomemaker.Com said...

It was wonderful to read how the party went -- thanks for sharing.

And I want some cake!

:-)

Dez said...

FW: Yeah, at first the invitation was so large that I had to crop it, then it went small. Maybe I'll play with it later.

PRO! Hey, thanks for checking how it all went down. I'm doing the rounds as quickly as I can.
PS: I went to the Dollar Tree and picked up some very nice soap dispensers (green depessed glass) for my kitchen and bathrooms, all for 7.50 each! And, am using unfinished shampoo too! They look beautiful dahling! Thanks!

Kay said...

Hi Dez, It's very nice to meet you. Thank you very much for becoming a Follower. You've made my day.

I'm so very sorry for your loss. I have a daughter and son also. I felt a stab in my gut when I read what happened to Jeffrey. It's always been a fear in the back of my head because my son is so adventurous. I'm sending you lots of hugs today all the way from Hawai. I'll be thinking about you.

The Queen said...

Dez, have I told you how much I admire you for being able to do all this? Well I do,, this is such a wonderful blog and you speak of Jeffrey in such a way that it will honor him forever..

I heart you long time..

The Queen..

Dez said...

Kay: Thank you for your kind words. Jeffrey was adventurous since he was 2 yrs. He was fearless. It worried me always, but that's who he was. I was glad that he found something that he really loved to do (skateboard and videotape others skateboarding), and that he was good at. All you can do is always tell your children that you love them and remind them to be safe. It's up to them from there.

Queen: Thank you for your heart-felt words. I'm just taking one day at a time. Days turn into weeks, then weeks turn into months, then years. It is very difficult to learn to live without my son, Jeffrey. I'm just trying to keep his memory alive. HUGS